No se trata de qué quieres hacer, se trata de cumplir con tu deber de padre y esposo.It's not a matter of what you want to do. It's a matter of doing your duty as a father and husband.
La policía ha concluido que no se trata de un suicidio. - ¿Es un asesinato entonces?The police has concluded that it's not suicide. - Is it murder then?
No se trata de ti. Soy yo, que todavía no estoy preparado para una relación seria.It doesn't have anything to do with you. It's me. I'm not ready yet for a serious relationship.