sneakingly

Assure them that if they want to go, you will help them to get started out openly and honorably, but that they need not shamefacedly and sneakingly run away.
Asegúreles, que si ellos quieren ir, usted les ayudará a salir abierta y honradamente, y que no necesitan escaparse con cara de vergüenza, secretamente.
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