desquitar

Es por eso que se desquitaba contigo.	That's why he took them out on you.
Y se desquitaba conmigo. Y un día me pidió ayuda.	He just took out on me and one day he asked me for help
Incluso golpeaba a mi esposa y me desquitaba con ella cuando algo fuera de la familia sucedía.	I even beat my wife and took it out on her when something bad happened outside the family.
Mi autoestima estaba enterrada bajo un gran peso de silencio que me aislaba de todos los que quería, el odio y enfado que me consumían lo desquitaba en mí.	My self-worth was buried under a soul-crushing load of silence that isolated me from everyone that I cared about, and I was consumed with misplaced hatred and anger that I took out on myself.
Ahora me doy cuenta de que cuando sentía que perdía el control de mi vida, me desquitaba con mi familia, ya que era el único lugar donde sentía que todavía tenía control.	I realize now that when I felt I was losing control over my life, I tightened my grip on my family; this seemed to be the only place I felt I still had control.
Como mi madre siempre estaba molesta con mi padre, muy frecuentemente desquitaba su enojo y estrés conmigo y mis hermanas.	As my mother was always upset with my father, she would often take out her anger and stress on me and my sisters.
Se desquitaba con nosotros.	Took it out on us.